What’s wrong with the Law of Attraction? September 27, 2006
Posted by larrybjr in Inner self, Law of Attraction, The Secret.trackback
Over the past few months I have had several personal revelations. I have written several articles about the Law of Attraction but it wasn’t until only recently that I discovered the one inherent flaw with the theory of “The Law of Attraction”. Like all theories, the law of attraction is simply just that, nothing more than a theory.
The flaw arises out of our need to have a theory in the first place. After all, isn’t our need to have a “life story” the reason why we are here? We constantly seek out new experiences. It is what physical humans do. Because we have an innate sense of needing a purpose, we rationalize this as being here to do something and yet that very thing we are here to do, we hide from.
So I suppose you could say the only flaw with the law of attraction is the same flaw with everything. Everything in this world is dualistic. It’s either this way or that way. My concern is the belief that there is only one way of absolute truth and when you are fed the “truth” by someone else you are in fact living your life through their eyes.
People believe that without a purpose and a set of morals we would be absolutely insane and yet deep down inside we do share a moral conscious. We do care about other humans. We share the joys and pains together and it’s our mutual empathy that has evolved into who we are today. The fact that we can each share pain and make ourselves have feelings towards another human being whom we have never met is surely a sign that we are in fact all connected. That is why we feel sad when we hear the news that Princess Diana has been killed or even the crocodile hunter. We experience these feelings of pain because we are somehow connected.
We do not need a “theory” of life, we only think we do. Many people believe that without a God there would be no rules. We believe there would be chaos in the streets and yet we ignore that in fact there already is chaos in the streets. Our desire to have a purpose only drives our insanity into a never ending egoic journey from which we never seem to be able to escape.
If I had to say what I thought my purpose would be, I would say that it is the power of intent that drives all of us. We create our life through our intent. Following an idea or belief is only good for the sake of following an idea or belief. I’ve heard the phrase “Faith without works is dead” and it’s true! It takes a lot of work being alive right? So our true purpose is finding faith in whatever we choose and then going with the flow. I don’t care if you believe in the law of attraction, I only care that I live my life to its fullest extent with true conscious intent. So if you ask my advice I say just go with the flow, decide what your next step in life will be and follow through with it. Then when you wake up tomorrow, start all over again.
Larry – just ran across your block. I also write a blog on the LOA but it’s a little different than what I see from a lot of the LOA folks out there – http://sendoutcards.wordpress.com. Check it out.
You talk about purpose, true purpose for us humans on earth. Here is something I developed for myself 30-35 years ago … long before I understood the LOA or even knew it existed.
Why are we here?
1. To have a good time. I just can’t fathom a creator who would put us here to have a bad time. So … have a good time.
2. Reproduce the species … if you desire to do so (not required for each of us).
3. Leave the place in better shape than you found it. (Intrepret this anyway you see fit)
I can die tomorrow and know I did all three.
Check you later.
R@
Just my two cents Larry. I don’t think we experience feelings of pain from other persons because we are connected. I think most of the time we are projecting our own sadness and fears onto those situations. Feelings of pain and loss, fear, its only in our minds. Princess Diana, the crocodile hunter, they ‘choose’ to leave this world in their own way, maybe not for us to understand why they did it that way. We are projecting our sadness and pain onto those situations.

There is another way of ‘looking’ at this. With the ‘eyes’ of who you really are, with eyes of peace and trust and Love and a sense of knowing that we are eternal beings and are just coming and going.
There’s nothing ‘wrong’ with the Law of Attraction, it just is. We are a magnet and drawing everything to us, the things we focus on.
So if the feeling about your former girlfriend are feelings of she just isn’t there, you will attract just that. Sorry for being so forwarded, I’m dutch and they seem to do that more…
The law of attraction isn’t bad or wrong. Its not a theory, but your wright we are not on the right path if we use it as a rule or something. Just know its there all the time and know we always, every day and every hour, have a CHOICE. A choice on what to focus on, that we will attract, as long as our being is focused on this earth
Wishing you succes, and much much much love and light
Megan